Stumbled on this long ago pitch - to speak at a side event of TED Global conference in Oxford in 2010. To talk about our global self that can be found through online social networking.

I was having a great time with it, and early, as an expatriate! Those sure were golden days of wide open online life and exploration, glad I got to experience them. Nothing like today’s terrordome of trolls and info ops.

Posting this as a Throwback Thursday, to a time when I was thinking about our potential to connect globally (and yet refusing to use a common tongue to do it?! 😅), when in November 2024 my attention has been turning more and more to offline local community.

A MOST DIFFICULT NO-BRAINER: global citizens still need to find a place in the world

We’re born global citizens, even if that knowledge is trained out of us by family and culture and nation.

A global identity can seem nebulous and ungrounded, while something concrete and localized makes more sense. Problem with concrete though: it cracks over time, in quickly changing conditions, and sometimes even under its own weight.

There’s good news in this era of globalization. I believe we’re entering a permanent state of psychic limbo, a place where our concrete center won’t hold. Too many of us know the bittersweet liminality of living between multiple worlds, and the soul-sprung righteousness of refusing to settle on just one. 

This 600-word talk is synthesized from ~six months of my blogposts at Furthering the Worldwide Cultural Conversation and includes revelations from my 13 years of identity struggle as an expatriate in 4 countries, the virtual community of cultural peers I created with the book Tales from the Expat Harem and the current online neoculture community expat+HAREM, and my work as a cultural producer and host of the hybrid identity discussion series Dialogue2010,  two years in-depth experience in social media with a focus on location independence and self actualization.

I’ll cover our changing sense of peers, the exquisite pull of online social networking -- as opposed to the usual blunt force push of social circumstance -- and how that demands more value and relevance from our connections, and us, and how fashioning a hybrid lifestyle to honor all the worlds we live in taps into our own global being. I call it finding your global niche, a psychic solution to a global identity crisis. 

I end with a metaphor for this kind of fluid identity (bobbing buoy tied to a point deep below surface of changing options, existing in a wider orbit around the inner me so I can be more versions of myself) and extrapolate that to the issue of global citizenship. Putting distance between yourself and your global citizenship offers more fluid points of connection, as well as an anchor. I suggest creating ‘psychic location independence’ to truly be a citizen of the world.